Young men of high school age probably spend about as much time thinking about how to attract a girl's attention as they do sitting in class in some cases, even more. What's the magic ingredient that causes girls to flock to a certain guy in droves, while another perfectly normal, good-looking guy goes unnoticed? Boys have been pondering this question for centuries. Wonder no more. Here we've got a capsule primer for modern life, to teach you the ropes on how to attract girls and be the one they flock to, in droves. No more Mr. Unnoticed.
First of all, you need to exude confidence. If you believe that girls won't find you worthy their time, they won't. This doesn't mean you have to be an egomaniac. Just convey a happy go lucky (not goofy) attitude with a little touch of aloofness. This makes the girls think that you're a nice guy, open to a fun time, but definitely not desperate. Approachable, but no overly aggressive.
Most girls find the 'bad boy' syndrome somewhat exiting up to a point. You don't want them to think you're always getting into fights and trouble, just that you're adventurous, daring and your own man. Girls don't push you around. You'll need to finesse your display of qualities when you meet a girl's parents. Remember, if you attract girls, but fail the parent test, your efforts have been wasted.
Cell phones can be a wonderful foil when attempting to impress the girls. Let's say you're walking an attractive girl to class, or home from school. Arrange for a friend to call you, or just check your messages. Susan called? Who's Susan? Oh, yeah, the girl we met at the park last weekend. Did she leave a number? Yeah, okay, I'll call her later. She seemed nice. Then, leave it at that. This lets the girl you're with know that other girls find you attractive, but that's no big deal to you. Furthermore, 'nice' is a quality you find attractive in girls.
Boys who enjoy reading are usually able to attract girls easily. You don't have to go in full nerd mode, with a dozen tomes bristling from your backpack. One slim volume of poetry or literature, not assigned in class, ought to work wonders. Do be sure you can remark intelligently on the contents. Now the girls will view you as not only smart, but sensitive. Wow!
Signature garments are another good 'prop' for you. Distinctive hats, T-shirts and coats make it easy for the girls to pick you out in a crowd. Well chosen signature clothing items have other positive effects, such as increasing your cool quotient and edginess. Play this one low-key. Distinctive but not loud. You want to attract girls, not birds, so forget the hat with the purple plume.
Now, as for transportation. Unfortunately, having a car can make a big difference in your ability to attract girls. If you live in a city, taking the Metro is cool; otherwise, you'd better get a job so you can buy a car.
In summary, it's easy enough to attract girls. Try some of these tips and see if they don't make you a more attractive prospect with the ladies.
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